On the Coast – Over 55 Issue 29 I May/June 2019 | Page 15

eroded. (And in my head I was thinking, “gosh, wasn’t it freedom and democracy you fought for and liberation from persecution? How exactly does immigration at all negatively impact your life? Not only are the youth working hard right now but they will be working even harder and going backwards after inheriting a broken economy, broken environment and broken world!” But I didn’t say that.) I didn’t say any objections, he was entitled to his views and vote, but my vigorous inner dialogue kept going hours after our encounter and it got me thinking, particularly in the light of Australia in an election year, with issues like tax reform, climate change, cost of living and immigration as big issues. I got thinking about ‘thinking’. He might have been ‘future thinking’ for his own personal life and desires, but he was applying ‘old thinking’ to our future problems. As we face a very different, global and evolving future, a future facing extraordinary and unprecedented stresses, I worry our ‘old thinking’ and the worldviews that prevailed as the dominant wisdom for over half a century, I worry that ‘thinking’ might not save us now. When you look at history, every evolutionary leap in technology, medicine, economics or anything, has always required radical thinking. Different thinking. Thinking that needed to question the status quo and the accepted norms and think beyond them... ‘future thinking’. Future thinking first requires a new and imagined, dreamed up, reality. The reality of flight was once only a dream. The reality of wireless technologies was once only a dream. My nonagenarian UK friend, who despite our wildly different views, he was thinking about his own future based on his personal desires and dreams. It gave him not only energy, certainty and purpose, it gave him HOPE. We need some of that HOPE too. Future thinking is now required on a global scale by our leaders in order to evolve and move us forward. Future thinking about dreaming and hoping to make things better for future generations, even if it might be dream based on a desired future that seems impossible right now. While our political ‘leaders’ battle it out and we hold our breath to see if new or old thinking will prevail, it shouldn’t stop us from leading at the grass roots level. It is us who inhabit the edge of humanity’s evolution. We all contribute to the creation of the future. As you think about your dreams and desires – your own personal ones as well as for generations ahead – and ask yourself, “does your thinking now support the future you want to create, for yourself and for next generations?” Sarah Tolmie is a life & love coach, therapist and consultant. Her practice focuses on helping individuals, couples and families navigate, grow and heal through all their life & love events, changes and challenges – including love, marriage & family relationships; success, health & wellness; and grief & loss, as well as coping with illness, dying and death. Sarah is also a Life & Love Celebrant, and Pastoral Care Practitioner, creating profound and meaningful ceremonies for all life & love events. You can visit her website www.sarahtolmie.com.au and receive her Daily Love updates on her Facebook page at Sarah Tolmie – Life & Love. The Goal is AGILE, not FRAGILE! Try one of our Mature Groovers Classes at Central Coast Leagues Fitness for FREE! Fun, friendly, social and gentle exercise that will help you get your body moving without agitating injuries or aches and pains. Located on level 1 of the Central Coast Leagues Club – our friendly team and class instructors will lead you through your workout with some good classic music and laughter. Learn how to improve your movement and your day to day strength – all without blowing a poofa valve! Suitable for any and all fitness levels, we’d love to invite you to come and try it out on us.” Call us on 02 4325 9879 to book your FREE class or simply bring this advert to our reception desk. T I 02 4325 9879 A I Central Coast Leagues Club, Lvl 1 W I www.cclfitness.com.au MAY/JUNE 2019 – ISSUE 29 15