OH! Magazine - Australian Version January 2014 (Australian Version) | Page 19

HOW TO PROTECT KIDS FROM BECOMING OVERWEIGHT KATE SWANN & KRISTINA MAMROT www.yourweightlossexperts.com (OH, REALLY?) Leading Australian psychologists and weight loss specialists, Kate Swann and Kristina Mamrot, are on a mission to teach parents the strategies needed to combat child obesity. tatistics reveal that 25 per cent of Australian children are overweight or obese1. Obesity and weight gain have been hailed as a modern day epidemic, and Australian kids are not immune. As psychologists specialising in working with overweight clients, Kate and Kristina see first-hand the devastating effects weight gain has on children and teenagers. And the research agrees with the psychologists. Kids who are overweight are more prone to suffer low mood, anxiety, low self-esteem and also have an increased incidence of being bullied2. So, why don’t we just pop them on a diet? Isn’t that the best way to help kids lose weight? It’s not as easy as you may think, because research has found that dieting is the single most important risk factor for developing an eating disorder3. So, what can concerned parents do when they realise that Junior is carrying more than just puppy fat? Kate and Kristina offer these tips for helping children slim down and develop life-long healthy eating habits: • Children learn their eating habits by observing their parents. So if you reach for a snack the second you walk in the door, break open the chocolate when you’re upset or celebrating, or eat quickly without savouring your food, your kids will do the same. • Sorting out your own dysfunctional eating habits is the number one way to protect your children from excess weight. And we don’t mean go on a S • • • • diet – this sends the wrong message to those young ears. Work out why you overeat and eat when you’re not hungry. Understanding why gives you space to make some changes. Beware of talking about dieting, calorie counting, or eating ‘special’ diet food. This gives kids the message that you’re not okay with yourself and your body shape. And it’s a short step from there to ‘I’m not acceptable when I’m overweight’ for your kids. Never criticise or point out overweight people. This is not a sport, and again, gives your kids the message that the only way to be acceptable is to be thin. Stop buying junk food except for once a week treats. If it’s not healthy enough for your kids to eat, it’s not healthy enough for you. Demonstrate to your children how you can take just one chocolate biscuit from the pack, slowly savour it, and don’t need to go back for another because you know you can have one the next day. It’s not okay to let them see you giving yourself permission to ‘once I start I can’t stop’ and eat the whole pack. • Make exercise part of your regular routine. Like seeing Mum and Dad reading a book encourages children to read, seeing them exercising encourages this healthy habit. • Make sure you have family dinners as often as practical. Serve the food in the centre of the table and allow children to help themselves (as long as they try everything). • Don’t pass on the ‘clean plate rule’ to your children. Leaving food they don’t want on a plate is an essential life skill, which as an adult, you may well have lost touch with. Kate Swann and Kristina Mamrot are the authors of Do You Really Want To Lose Weight. The book provides a fascinating and confronting insight into not what people are eating but why they are eating it. The whole approach behind Do You Really Want To Lose Weight is to urge readers to be genuine, realistic and sensible in their weight loss objectives. Do You Really Want To Lose Weight ($29.95) is available from Amazon, other eBook platforms and from all good bookstores, including Dymocks. Visit www.YourWeightLossExperts.com or www.pscounselling.com.au for more details. ( OH! MAGAZINE ) ISSUE 6 19