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Fin : Love is Something Everyone Will Go Through
Fin Macdonald , the instructor of our periodical reading course shared his pain-sweet first love story with us and provided valuable advice for youngsters .
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the girl to dance at the ball did not lead their relationship to anywhere further . Eventually , this relationship ended up fruitless .
Being nurtured by the first love
After the painful but beautiful reminiscence of his first love , Fin , as an “ experienced hand ” of the first love , gave us his precious advice for the young people to refer to .
Seasoned and sophisticated as he looks , Fin also had a heart-broken experience of fruitless first love when he was a teenager . Last week , Fin Macdonald , invited as the honored guest of our special column “ The Arrow of Cupid ”, shared with us his experience of being hit by Cupid ’ s arrow .
The first arrow of Cupid
The heroine of Fin ’ s first love story is one of his classmates in his middle school , a girl with long black hair and black eyes . “ Whenever she passes by and sometimes unintentionally pokes her elbow into my arms , I can feel my heart pounding violently .” Fin said , with a reminiscent smile . At that time , however , Fin was too shy even to speak to her . His boldest move — inviting
“ Time heals wounds ”, as Fin repeated . He said that although the experience did take a toll on him during that period , after years , the wounds healed up automatically and now he can recollect the memory at ease . Fin regarded the first love experience as “ childish love ” and said that people ’ s minds would undergo changes when they are getting mature . He also encouraged the youngsters to be brave when facing failures in pursuing love . “ Do not be afraid of such experience . It ’ s natural ”, Fin said , “ Love is something everyone will go through .”
When asked about his ideal girlfriend now , Fin said he is likely to have a crash on the kind of girl who is kind to children and animals , and has a passion for something interesting , like music or art . “ So that we can have interesting conversations .” Said Fin .
( Edited by Elaine )