Nomad Internet Marketing March 2017 Issue 03 | Page 23

23 Now, I know you’re building your list with people who have ASKED to be on your list. And when they want to leave your list, you have that handy dandy link they can click. But… What about those times when you’ve contacted someone – say, another product owner, a business owner, a blog owner, etc., - and proposed something? “I have this URL which is really close to yours, wanna buy it?” “I have this great product your list would love, wanna promote it?” “I have this terrific service that will bring you new business, wanna look at it?” These are all technically spam. And if reported and acted upon by the FTC, you could get into trouble. Now, most folks will never bother to report you, even if they are miffed. But it only takes one or two to start trouble. So in this case, what might you do? First, I’m no lawyer. Remember that. This is NOT legal advice. But I can tell you the methods I use: • If I get a referral from somebody, I use that referral in my initial email. “Jake told me (this and this about you) and he said I should contact you and see about possibly setting something up.” No one (in my experience) is going to mind getting this email because you’ve mentioned the mutual friend. Heck, it wasn’t even your idea. • I don’t ask for what I want in the initial email. Frankly, I might not ask for days or even weeks. Instead, I focus first on building a relationship. “Hi Ellen, I see you’re in the __ field and I just wanted to introduce myself.” No one ever has enough professional contacts, so this nearly always gets a positive response. • I give them kudos for something they’ve accomplished. “Rashim, I just finished reading your book and I loved it. Here’s what you taught me (Here I list my 3 biggest takeaways). Anyway, just wanted to thank you for writing this great book, I’m going to recommend it to my fellow marketers.” This nearly always gets a response. In any email I send, I put my contact info including website, social media and Skype. Whether I ask them to contact me or not, they almost always do, and usually it’s by email after they’ve checked out my website. Out of respect for their time, I keep initial emails short and to the point. I don’t solicit. I do close with something like, “If I can be of help to you, please let me know.” Don’t worry about offering your help – professionals generally don’t take advantage of each other, and if they were to ask for something crazy, you could always say no. If I had to sum up how to send an unsolicited email to a fellow marketer in three words, it would be this: Make it personal.