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CLASS ACTION NJ State PBA Peer Liaison training April 27 NJ State PBA Office, Woodbridge 10 a.m. For information call Mike Pellegrino at: 609-352-3398 email: [email protected] The NJ State PBA is again offering Peer Assistance Training classes like this one that was held at the state office in Woodbridge. On Call CONTINUED FROM PAGE 29 The calls come in day and night, according to all who get them - Dr. Stef, Dr. B, Cop 2 Cop and Pellegrino and the PART. Pellegrino relates one he recently received from a member he characterized as “feeling sad.” No reason to take any chances when a call like that comes in. So he immediately deployed the Question-Persuade-Response (QPR) method Castellano has trained thousands of PBA members to enact. These are the calls that reinforce clinical services and peer assistance are making a difference. “We have the ability to handle tough situations,” Pellegrino asserts. “We have the resources to make sure the Locals are getting trained and asking the tough questions. The tough questions are the ones that can be the difference in saving somebody's life.” Pellegrino laments that it seems every time he steps in front of the membership at a state meeting or PBA convention to talk about peer assistance and suicide awareness, “that's when a lot of people get up and go to the bathroom.” Consequently, one of the disconnects with engaging is the need for more QPR training. That disconnect is only exacerbated by the plethora of new State Delegates and Local presidents who have yet had the opportunity to get trained. The PBA is addressing that by stepping up its Peer Assistance classes, beginning with one scheduled for April 27 in Woodbridge. Pellegrino challenges members to be one of the 40 to get into the class and make a difference. Get into the class and make a difference like Peer Liaison Co-Chair Mauro Farallo, the Passaic Local 14 Delegate, and Bergen County Sheriff’s Department Local 134 State Delegate Andy Pacucci, who have the exposure and experience to engage and enforce. Farallo’s longtime fight to get sober and Pacucci 30 NEW JERSEY COPS ■ APRIL 2016 losing two members of his Academy class to suicide have created motivation to spread the courage to ask the tough questions. “Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem,” Pacucci reasons. “Ours is a tough-guy neighborhood, but it doesn't need to be. We can do more to bring awareness by being there to get each other's backs and not just when we're working. We need to be there for each other in the good times and the hard times.” Dr. Stef comments that the hard times are making the phone ring 24-7. More and more criminals are out there targeting cops, and more and more members of the community, media and political sector are questioning any time law enforcement officers use any kind of force. That is old news. The tough-guy mentality that asking for help or asking a