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An Excerpt from The Karma Queens Guide to Relationships
By Dr. Carmen Harra, PhD and Alexandra Harra
Ten Ways to Know If
They’re Your Soul Mate
Throughout my career, I have seen everything from
couples who married their childhood loves to people in
their retirement years who still struggle with commitment
issues.
M
ost of us fall somewhere
between these two extremes, meaning that we
experience several relationships before finding
the person we believe to
be our perfect pairing.
Whether you’re currently married, in a relationship, or contemplating entering a relationship
with a new love interest, it is crucial that you know
what role this person will play in your life. After all,
there’s no avoiding the inevitable, often uncomfortable question we must ask ourselves: Is this
the person I was bound by destiny to share my
life with? Or did I settle too quickly into a relationship with someone who can never complete me?
Answering these questions honestly can be hard
without a bit of guidance. There are ten signs that
indicate a soul mate bond (or a lack of) between
you and your partner.
Ten Ways to Know If They’re Your Soul Mate
1. You just….know. Describing how a soul mate
makes you feel is difficult. It’s a tenacious, profound, and blissfully lingering emotion that no
words can encompass.
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2. Flashbacks. If your partner is your soul mate,
chances are he or she has been present in at least
one of your past lives. Soul mates often choose to
come back together during the same lifetime and
scope each other out in the big world. You might
suddenly and briefly experience flashbacks of your
soul mate. You might even feel an odd sense of
déjà vu, as if the moment in time has already taken