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students, teachers and administrators working together, the district has been rolling out a variety of initia- tives aimed at reducing the likelihood of that happening. Some have been tried and discontinued, others work well and are continuing, and more are in the pipeline; nearly all could be duplicated by other school districts. Here are some options Millburn students will have this year to reduce stress while getting the most out of their studies. STRESS-FREE ZONES The district has carved out spaces where students can eek out some quiet and comfort when they need it. “A zen room [such as the one in the middle school guidance suite] is a space where kids can choose to go just to take time to be quiet,” says Burton. At Hartshorn Elementary School, for example, students have access to the “Peace Room” during recess and also at lunch, when a counselor chats with students during “lunch bunch” sessions. At Millburn High School, the Student Center welcomes teens who want to share what’s on their minds with a counselor. “The kids are very driven, and have high expectations of themselves,” says Linda Randazza, the school psychologist who works full time in the suite. “We’re address- ing the question ‘What if you fall short of the mark you set for your- self?’ We are trying to make students understand that failure is a step to success.” Though counselors do field a lot of concerns about academic per- formance, she says, they also hear “about things that are going on socially, with relationships and fami- lies... We talk about how to balance activities, study, a social life, family and ‘me time’ — time to take care of yourself as well.” To familiarize students with what the center has to offer — and de-stig- matize asking for help — counselors host therapy dogs once a month, and offer coffee, water and fruit during exam periods. ACTS OF KINDNESS (Top) Class president Jamie Serruto (center, in pink) volunteers for the Millburn Township Beautification League along with other Millburn students; (Above) Students post inspirational thoughts during Mental Health Awareness Month. TOOLS FOR DE-STRESSING IN PLACE Yoga is offered as a physical education option at the high school level; at the middle school, students can practice it at lunch. Beyond that, “The next step we’re looking at as a result of [recommendations by] Challenge Success is to bring more mindfulness into the classroom,” says Burton. Using research and resources developed for New Jersey educators by Dr. Maurice Elias, a professor of psychology at Rutgers University and director of its Social-Emotional and Character Development Lab, the district plans to train educators to recognize when kids are stressed, and encourage them to give them a break to breathe deeply and relax, or go to the Student Center for help. MILLBURN & SHORT HILLS MAGAZINE BACK TO SCHOOL 2019 35