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she said “ OK, alright then, take care! “ I said “ yes, take care mommy”. Phil was on the couch crying, I went to him to comfort him. I said “ what’s wrong?” he was crying real ugly saying “ I can’t believe how am treating you after I carried you down here from your parents house!” I rubbed his back and said “ hush”, I hugged him and wiped his tears with my hand. This is some next level thing right here! because I was crying because he had abused me, then I have to turn around and be comforting him because he got sad and crying about carrying me way into the country to be abusing me. (I can’t believe this bull. . .) Before 3 yrs of marriage with Phil I left him and told him to give me a divorce and it took him 2 ½ years to finally give me those divorce papers. Ric was cool at first when we met, my friend Kay from acting class set us up, she told me she had a guy for me, what she did not mention to tell me is that he had anger problems and abused women! Within a year of us being a couple, he was nice and he treated me like a real husband type man until he lost his job, I had to be the one taking care of him and his daughter who is not mine, Ric got real obsessive and possessive after he was not working anymore. 22