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baby daddy, he told her to abort the child, she did, (she found out it was a boy) she was devastated about it because she wanted a boy. After the abortion, she never had a boy after. We came out of high school, she is still with this boy who got her pregnant again, she had a girl, then she got pregnant years after with another daughter. After 9yrs of being with this man she decided to ask him to marry her (he should have asked her first!) But anyway. . . he proposed, they get married, years after she dumped him, saying he was abusive and selfish. I heard him fight her when she was talking to me over the phone, and he gave her a black eye when I went to see her, but she fought him back! (Yes!). They eventually got a divorced years after, he sweet talked his way back to her life, she took him back, he got a girl pregnant and she eventually left him for good this time! Wow! (It was bad like my life story). The point of this is that he was a USER! & an abuser. I would have NEVERRR let a man get me pregnant and not marry me, worst to give me 2 babies after 9yrs of being with him and he don’t marry me, oh HAAYYY NO!!! I know of men who would go to the extreme to use women by marrying a different race who have money, so that she can take care of him, he can live 13