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cheating. A next girl got him his first drivers license and girls take care of him and gave him money. I told him that he is lucky and he needs to stop cheating on the girl that gave him his first car! He was like: “well, you know things have to happen and she knows, but she still stays”. I said “ WHAT?!” I would never stay with you if I buy you your first car and you cheat on me!” “The user men” just want to use up everything you’ve got, taking everything you can give and they give you less or nothing other than intercourse. Even by giving you intercourse, they are basically taking what you’re giving them anyway. I’ve met few “users” in my time, when I realize they are using me, I end our relationship; I am not going to allow no man to use me! Especially not more than 3 times. (Don’t do it ladies!) I went to Barbados and I met a boy, he is definitely a user, because he just want to ask me for stuff, to buy him this and to give him that and all he gave me was a piece of cake that I did not enjoy. I even had to buy my own food when we went out. It was the end for us dating! I couldn’t be with him no more! I had a friend years ago from high school whose name is Bae, in high school, she met & dated a guy named Jay from her community, who became her 12