The English author, C S Lewis, wrote that forgiveness is a great idea until someone has something to forgive.
So when two peoples such as the Palestinians and Israelis, who have been at war for so long with so many losses on both sides, in a conflict driven by nationalistic pride or over claims of ancient covenant rights, forgiveness can quickly disappear. In its place remains unforgiveness, a cruel prison keeping people captive to historic injuries. For genuine and lasting reconciliation to occur there must be forgiveness. Forgiveness is the foundation upon which a house of reconciliation can be built.
For true progress towards reconciliation to be made there must first be honesty about past failings, recognition of each other’s needs and rights, and a willingness to make compromise. People must see each other’s humanity. Both sides must understand, appreciate and respect each other’s needs for security, peace, cultural freedoms and the need to work together towards common goals, such as the prevention of terrorism.
In the Palestine-Israel conflict there is a huge amount at stake for both parties. Both have much to gain or lose depending on how successful future negotiations are. However, such negotiations can only succeed if they focus on the future, and not dwell in the past. We must learn from the past, but not dwell in it, for we cannot change it, we can only affect the future.
Today exists a window of opportunity that has not been present before. This opportunity is to be found among the generation of younger Palestinians and Israelis; educated, more open-minded, who have grown up with the Internet and see things differently.
The old guard who grew up in war and conflict, are blinded by their experiences and emotions, unable to negotiate effectively. To help this generation of young Palestinians and Israelis succeed where their parents and grandparents have failed, they need much encouragement, recognition and education.
Is Peace
and Reconciliation Possible?
Emmaus Group - by Christy Anastas and Howard Stern
DAVIDS STAR MAGAZINE
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