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potential genius at birth. After all we have been told by the experts that the things that augur well for greatness are boldness, not worrying about failure, not worrying about what people think and the ability to be inquisitive. Every baby has these qualities from the time they are born. The qualities that lead to failure such as fear, failure averseness and worrying about what people will say are things we learn as we grow older. No child was born with these attributes but they are developed and influenced by the information and exposure that they get as they grow up. We can therefore safely say that everybody is born a genius. Mediocrity is something we learn as we grow up and get exposed to the realities of other people’s belief systems. These belief systems could be from parents, teachers or the society at large and once they are imparted into a person, they become the standard through which people live their lives. We are told that information is king. It is everything. However, it depends on what kind and where it is coming from. The information that most people grow up with is the reason their lives are so unadventurous. The information they grew up with was information that confined them to what already exists. Don’t ask questions, just go with the flow. I remember when I was a little boy and my mother got me my first wrist watch. Instinctively I was going to put it on my right wrist but just as I was about to do this, my mother intervened and told me that wrist watches are put on the left wrist. I asked her why this was so and she snapped at me and told me that I asked too many questions and that I should just put the thing on my left wrist because that is how people have always done it. I went ahead and put it on my right wrist. Now the interesting thing is that this was nearly half a century ago and I am still alive and well. So in essence there was no consequence for not putting the watch on my left wrist. How many times do we live out the realities of previous generations or the realities of others without asking questions? TDisruption starts the day you begin to ask the right questions. Do not be deceived by the information hype that information is king so just go for it. The power of information is in its relevance and the ability of the recipient to process the information accurately. Remember that every book that has ever been written and that will ever be written is a product of people who successfully combined the resources of the twenty six letters of the alphabet. Everyone has access to these letters. What you are able to do with them is what counts. The fact that you are informed is no guarantee that you will come up with the best solutions. Your exposure and information is limited by your thought process. When you are exposed to a situation what goes on in your mind? Do you accept what is or ask questions about what can be? And, when you ask what can be, do you see yourself as a provider or contributor to what can be? Only those who question the present and see themselves as contributors to the future can develop solutions for the future. You may be intelligent and you may ask the right questions but as long as it is not settled in you that you are part of the solution you will have a passive attitude and once you arrive at this point of passivity your irrelevance in the future is guaranteed. Dr. Akinyemi is the Chief Transformation Officer, PowerTalks Corporate & Personal Development Consultants. These are excerpts from his new book titled: Disruptive Intelligence. You can commune with him via mail at: Wale@ powertalks.biz, or via his twitter handle at: twitter@waleakinyemi.