this side of me , or it ’ s turning me on how vulnerable I am able to safely be around this person , etc .); or it could feel like another form of submission or dominance .
5 . Why does it feel better from behind ?… Some females ( and men ) may enjoy it because they are able to be present , and it can take away from of the anxiety of feeling insecure about your physical appearance . For males , it can be one of the best positions because it gives them more control and allows them to be a little more dominating .
6 . Why do we watch lesbian porn if we ’ re straight ? Why do we want to watch straight porn if we ’ re lesbians ? Porn gives us an escape and a safe outlet to let our fantasies run wild , so just because you are turned on by a certain porn genre doesn ’ t mean that you actually want to act out that fantasy . Lesbian porn tends to focus more on clitoral stimulation , oral sex and , in general , legitimate pleasure of a female . Because of this focus , it can be more of a turn on for females to watch .
7 . What position is the best for clitoral stimulation ? G-spot ? One of the best positions would be cowgirl , especially if your partner has pubic hair , it can provide more clitoral stimulation . Also , if your partner is able to position himself sitting up with pillows behind him .
8 . Why do we bite ? Why do we scratch ? When we are bitten or feel light to moderate pain , we experience arousal just like when we experience sexual stimulation … [ it ] is technically called odaxelagnia . Keep in mind , though , that biting is not everyone ’ s cup of tea , and everyone ’ s pain tolerance is different .
9 . Why do we have to imagine someone else when someone is going down on us ? It ’ s even easier to fantasise about someone else when you can ’ t see [ his or her ] face !
10 . Why do guys love to have their balls fondled and played with ? For the men who do enjoy it , it is a pleasure centre just like any erogenous zone . Ask your partner what type of pressure and sensation [ he ] enjoys in [ his ] testicles before diving in !
11 . What is squirting ? Can any woman do it ? To begin , squirting is NOT female ejaculation … It is basically urine . We don ’ t know if any woman can do it , and if you want to get closer to trying , focus on g-spot stimulation , have extreme sexual confidence and a full bladder .
12 . What does it mean when we think about someone else while we ’ re having sex with our partner ? It ’ s usually nothing personal toward your partner . Don ’ t read into it ; it does NOT mean you are not attracted to [ him or her ]. The sexual unlocks the fantastical ; we all have our sexual fantasies . When we are with just one partner sexually , that doesn ’ t mean that all of our fantasies revolve around [ him or her ].
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