Honest Answers To Weird , Kinky Sex Questions We ’ re Too Afraid To Ask
1 . Why do we love the whole daddy / daughter fantasy ? It ’ s as subjective to the individual who is having it as any other fantasy — as we all have our own unique backgrounds … it is very common . Some different ways that this fantasy has been viewed are as another version of a ‘ submission ’ fantasy ; it also falls along a common theme of common fantasies . It is so taboo and ‘ wrong ’ that it turns us on thinking about how ‘ dangerous ’ it is . Another possibility is that our fathers can be the templates of what we view as a strong partner . Keep in mind that because we fantasize about something , this does not mean that we would want a fantasy to cross over into the threshold of reality by any means .
2 . Why do we like to be dominated ? Why do we love bondage ? Our society encourages independence and self-sufficiency . The majority of our day we spend needing to be in control and ‘ have it together .’ Being dominated allows us to safely give up control and ‘ submit ’ to someone else ’ s agenda .
3 . Why do we like to be choked and / or slapped ? Being choked and / or slapped is sort of like a ‘ light kink ’ for many people . It allows you to explore your kinky side without too much masochism .
4 . Why does name-calling turn us on ? Why do we enjoy teasing when it ’ s just torture ? There could be many different reasons for this , as this is unique to every individual and dependent on a variety of factors , such as background history and the dynamics of the different relationships peppered throughout your life . Some reasons … could be associating sex with being ‘ bad ’ and associating ‘ being bad ’ with the freedom to express your deepest sexual desires ; it could be a form of intimacy ( i . e . only my partner knows
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