LIVE, your guide for student life September 2014 | Page 12

F eeling lonely? Miss your home and family? The majority new university students will suffer some level of homesickness. Research shows most of them can cope within a few weeks.By the third week all but a few have found symptoms decreasing. How about you? There are several factors that make people feel homesick, such as, have been away from home for the first time, low self esteem, and have close emotional relationship with family or a partner at home. For international students, everything seems get harder since they have to adapt with unfamiliar new culture. “The advantage of working in a restaurant, beside getting extra money, I have free meal!” Faustina Myra (26), BCU student 12 Taken from a paper published in Pediatrics, the journal of the American Academy of Pediatrics, Chris Thurber and Edward Walton define homesickness as “distress and functional impairment caused by an actual or anticipated separation from home and attachment objects such as parents.” Homesick is a normal part as a students’ development towards adulthood. By being homesick, it tells you to realize certain needs and to find solutions to satisfy that uncomfortable feeling. While you are tempted to going back home when you’re homesick, figuring out that feeling make you grow into maturity. Yuying Wang, who studies Marketing in Aston University, has been living in Birmingham for almost 6 months. It’s not easy for her to live far away from her home in Beijing especially “I did solo travel for the first time to Switzwerland last Christmas. It was exciting!” Yuying Wang (24), Aston University student