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habits. If you overeat, you will feel sleepy. You should observe
the normality in my eating and drinking. There is normality in all
my actions, sleeping, waking, etc. If someone puts a little extra
dessert on my plate, I will adjust and decrease the intake of
other foods accordingly. I am aware ‘There is extra dessert on
the plate so I will not eat the vegetables.’ You do not have to
do all this. If you get up late, you have to keep telling your file
No. 1, ‘Chandulal, you are not able to remain within normality.’
You have to keep yourself in check. Tell Chandulal, ‘You
should wake up early.’ Cautioning yourself this way will
become beneficial. This is your real effort. By forcing yourself
to wake up early, you will ruin your mind.
Dissipation of Human Energy
Questioner : ‘The husband is the Lord.’ What is wrong
in this statement?
Dadashri : If women went around believing husbands of
today to be Lords, the husbands will become increasingly mad
through their intoxication of ‘I am something’.
One husband told his wife, “Put hot coals on your head
and cook your bread on it.” As it is he has the traits of a
monkey so what would happen if you give him alcohol?
A real man is one who has an aura, which commands the
respect of thousands of women. Just the mere sight of such a
man makes the women tremble. But, the men of today are such
that if Salia was holding his wife’s hand, he will plead, “Please
Salia, let go of her hand. She is my wife. She is my wife.” You
idiot! Why are you pleading to Salia? What kind of a fool are
you? You need to hit him, grab hold of his throat and bite him.
Salia is not one to leave your wife alone because of your
pleading. Instead, the husband then calls out, “Police, police!
Please help me!” You fool, after becoming a husband why are