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use their neighbor to love them- selves so they can feel like a god— highly praised and affirmed. Your spouse’ s sexual sin was an affront to God and the foundational command to love one another. That is one reason it hurts so bad. Nothing about avoiding threats or being patient with change diminishes this. The reason that these advisements are given is to help ensure that the main thing causing the pain gets the full attention it merits.
Excerpted from True Betrayal: 9 Steps for Processing Your Spouse’ s Infidelity © 2025 by Brad Hambrick. Used with permission of New Growth Press. May not be reproduced without prior written permission. To purchase this and other helpful resources, please visit newgrowthpress. com.
When you learn of your spouse ' s infidelity, you have hundreds of questions and no sense of direction. You feel paralyzed and like sprinting at the same time. True Betrayal was written to help you be confident in your early decisions, healthily process the emotions you ' re facing, and if your spouse is willing to cooperate with the companion volume, False Love, begin the work toward restoration.
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Brad Hambrick, ThM, EdD, serves as the Pastor of Counseling at The Summit Church in Durham, NC. He also serves as Assistant Professor of Biblical Counseling at Southeastern Baptist Theological Seminary and is a council member of the Biblical Counseling Coalition
He has authored several books, including God ' s Attributes: Rest for Life Struggles, Making Sense of Forgiveness, Angry with God, and the Church Based-Counseling series. Hambrick also served as general editor for the Becoming a Church that Cares Well for the Abused curriculum. 58
Hambrick, his wife, Sallie, and their two sons live in Raleigh, NC.