LEAD. August 2020 | Page 38

wheel. “Okay, Matt,” she said. “Go!” I hit the sidewalk and ran. There was a flower shop on the corner. “No public bathroom,” the lady florist said. El Rodeo Mercado was next door, so I dashed inside. “No hay baño público,” the cashier barked back to my request. The door jingled behind me as I made tracks down the block. 7 Monks Taproom, Espresso Bay, Truth Seeker Tattoo. At each window, “NO PUBLIC BATHROOM.” Jesus, send a Speedway, I prayed. I scanned the strip for gas pumps and a giant red sign. No Speedway in sight. Finally, I burst into a small clothing boutique for women. “In your bathroom or on the floor!” I cried. Faces were frozen, eyes wide. I realized I’d said this in the same tone some ski-masked terrorist might demand, Your money or your life! “I need to use the bathroom. Please?” I pleaded with pathetic eyes. A soft-spoken clerk slowly raised her arm and pointed to a door near the back. “Right over there, sir.” I made it back out front, a few shades paler but overall feeling like a new man. I walked up and down the median, craning my neck for our white 240. Where were we supposed to meet again? Just then, I heard the distinct beep of an eighties Volvo horn. “Are you okay?” Sarah asked when I climbed in. “I am now,” I replied, steering us back onto the strip. Sarah looked at me for a second and then burst out laughing. What could I do but laugh too? Funny how the most awkward, stressful moments can bring us together sometimes. Bathroom stories may not be the most romantic to share, but it’s never the starryeyed moments of marriage that make us question its meaning. It’s the random clashes, catastrophes, and misunderstandings that put love to the test. The Bible says that God made us a helper so we wouldn’t have to face life alone, but 38