LEAD. August 2020 | Page 36

FEATURE: BUILDING STRONG FAMILIES The Honeymoon By Matt Hammitt “Just Married” in soap on the windows, tin cans tied to the tailpipe. Loved ones cheering. Bubbles floating from the church sidewalk into the trees. Our bass player at the time, Steve Goodrum, was the appointed driver for our big exit. The plan was to take a celebratory ride before we returned to the church for photographs. We waved to our well-wishers and slipped into the back seat. I reached up front and patted Steve’s arm. “Just circle the church,” I told him. “That’ll be enough.” “What, no way!” Sarah said. “Ride around the block! Hop on the highway! This is one of the best parts! WE JUST GOT MARRIED!” I mean, seriously? It’s our wedding day. How many of these do we get? —Sarah I didn’t want to cause a ruckus. The thought of drawing attention to ourselves or causing a scene made me a nervous wreck. Typical Matt. Why couldn’t I let go? If you ever have license to lay on the horn and drag cans behind your car, it’s on your wedding day. We probably could’ve blasted 95 miles per hour down Glendale Avenue dragging a dumpster full of fireworks and the cops would be like, “Just got married? Carry on!” Poor Steve. Did he dare choose sides? Down the street for Sarah? Or around the church parking lot for me? In my desperate attempt to avoid conflict with strangers, I had created it with my bride instead. “Geez, Matt,” Sarah said, fire in those sparkling eyes. “Just relax and enjoy the ride.” And that’s how our friends and family saw us off in our old white Volvo with “SARAH + MATT” on the windows and soup cans tied to the back. 36