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by Keren Applebaum
Is giving our children the “ best of everything ” really the best way to prepare them for the rapidly changing , interconnected world ? The changing world demands a fundamental change in attitude . And that is something we can give our children on any budget
We love our little ones with a passion that is unparalleled . There are few pleasures as satisfying as caressing those chubby , miniature hands , kissing their fluffy , rosy cheeks while they blissfully snore away , and gently running our fingers through that soft , angelic baby hair . We cherish every little Kodak moment , like the time they get their grubby little hands on a piece of cake at their first birthday and joyfully smear it all over their entire face , their first clumsy encounter with Sam , their grandma ’ s dog , and of course , that first , heroic , wobbly step .
We love them so much , we want them to have the very best of everything , and we would go to any length to get it for them . We want them to have the softest , coziest socks , the healthiest , most delicious food , and the best toys that will give them endless joy and develop them into little geniuses . We would give away everything we have a million times over just to be sure that they will be safe , happy , and well cared-for . preparing our children For The FuTure But beyond the basic physical needs , do we know what these innocent creatures really need to be happy and to succeed in this complicated world of today ? Do we know what to give them beyond good clothes , food , games , and entertainment ? The world today is clearly not what it used to be , and the conditions for being safe , happy , and successful have changed considerably from the time we were kids . Opening the front page of any newspaper , it is easy to see that we , the adults , are not managing our world very well . We have let things develop to a point where we cannot control the consequences of our actions , and worse yet , we have created a haven for people ’ s worst egoistic tendencies to roam freely and take advantage of everything and everyone around .
Yet while we ourselves are caught in the midst of this unstable situation , we are still able to create a warm , safe , and loving environment for the little darlings dearest to us — until it is time for them to come out of the nest , that is . But after that , is our only available option to “ let be what will be ,” as we ’ ve done with our own lives ? Or is there something we can give our kids , some kind of knowledge , attitude , or awareness that will enable them to shape a world that will have very different headlines gracing the newspaper ?
Because our love and passion for them is so absolute , there is only one answer : There has to be something we can give them for a better life , and we have to find what it is and deliver it to them . So let ’ s be the adults that we are for a moment , and think soberly : It is definitely no longer an option to “ solve ” things by isolating them from the whole world , such as by keeping them at home for as long as we can and barring them from the outside world . It is also not an option to let them grow up “ like grass ” without rules or limits , or to let them think that everything they see in the movies , advertisements , and the internet is the truth and the standard to emulate . True , we cannot control the gigantic , out-of-control advertising industry or mass media , but we can instill in our kids the subconscious understanding of the fact that the selfish , egoistic goals and values so often promoted there are destructive and undesirable .
paradigm For Their neW World In our unprecedented , radically new , global world , where all people are starting to find themselves as members of a tightly-knit , interconnected family spanning to every corner of the world , it is no longer , “ He who has the most toys wins ,” but , “ He who is able to share his toys and enjoy watching others playing with them , wins .”
This is the vitally needed new attitude , knowledge , and awareness that
we , as parents , can give to our kids . This will be a present infinitely more valuable than any designer pair of boots , the healthiest baby formula , or the most expensive , battery-operated truck . And this invaluable education can begin at any age , even at birth , because as any mother knows , our kids absorb everything from us starting the moment they ’ re born . They soak in all the energies , thoughts , and attitudes around them from the very first moment because the soul has no age .
So let us transmit the values of giving and sharing to our children from their very first moments in this world , and let our infinite love for them be a constant reminder never to stop . If we only persevere in this one , all-important task as parents , we will very soon see our beloved darlings living in a truly safe and happy world .
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