con.
Me: So La Kisha, What do you think is the need?
La Kisha: Variety.
Jennifer from Edmonton, Alberta says " Greed. It depends on how I feel about the person(s). I need one partner (like I need to eat). But I agree that multiple
partners can be a fun indulgence (like chocolate)".
Me: So Jennifer, are you saying that you only need one partner, but if the relationship isn't all you need it to be then you are all for being greedy and
indulging?
Jennifer: Yes! If I have a strong attachment to the person.....I'm not sharing.... If it's not, then a bit of variety is nice
Gloria from Tanauan, Batangas, Phillippines says, "Greed because we should have only one partner in our life. Having multiple partners is no longer needed.
It is in the bible. I mean it is in the ten commandments".
Me: But didn't men have many wives and partners in the Bible, and doesn't the ten commandments say "thou shall not commit adultery"? No reference to if
both parties are single. Do you think it's the same thing for married or single individuals?
Crystal, from Hampton, Virginia says, "Personally I feel it's greed....that one partner should be enough and if you're not satisfied you should tell your partner
what you want. Just be honest.
Me: So what do you think causes an individual to be greedy?
Crystal: Same as always, a lustful spirit.
Crystal: In response to your previous question to Gloria regarding men having many wives, sure they did, but things changed when the laws changed.... The
adversary came in and perverted the unity of marriage which led to diseases, (sexual) causing stillbirth, sterilizations, and miscarriages. This type of greed is
against the body and has a domino effect. That's my viewpoint. But really in the long run males or females don't want a partner who is looking elsewhere.
Corey, from Hampton, Virginia says "It depends on the people and what they're both looking for." I think love vs. physical attraction and fantasy has a lot to do
with it. When you are all in love with someone, and you choose to make them your life partner, that's what they are; someone you don't see your life without.
Now admittedly that person may not fulfill every single thing on your attraction list or fulfill all of your fantasies, but some couples love and care about each
other enough to allow their partner to live out those fantasies because they want them to be happy. That takes a lot of relationship security, though.
William, from Columbia, Maryland says " It's conditioned....via the culture. There are ONLY five actual needs....Self-actualization, Esteem, Love/Belonging,
Safety, and Physiological. Everything else is desire.
So, as you can tell, everyone has their own personal opinion about whether having multiple partners is being greedy or just being needy.
I say if you go to the buffet and fill your plate up too full then try to eat it all, you are bound to suffer the consequences. Whether it's a stomach ache, a
headache, or a trip to the emergency room, you better believe there will be consequences. Sure it may taste good, and the thrill of having unlimited choices is
appealing. Yeah, you can always deny how much you had, you may even go so far as to lie and say you were never there, but when it is time for the Shiz
Nick to come out you better believe it's going to stink. And I know every one of my reader's parents has told them to "Stop being greedy."
Greed is a terrible thing, but what a person will do when they feel they are in need is just as dangerous!
This is Lady TJ signing off in the Controversial Corner.
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