Joy feelings magazine September 2019 Issue | Page 22

Plus, you have learned how to effectively apply these to your everyday life, your entire future is yours to create. The Laws of Attraction in Relationships Find your complaint. Every unhappy wife or single woman I’ve ever worked with has a complaint about men (i.e, they just want sex, there aren’t any good ones, they don’t want a relationship) or her man specifically (i.e., he’s controlling, narcissistic or preoccupied). For her, the complaint is just how it is—reality. She has no concept that what she’s telling me is actually the reality she’s created by focusing on it.I can understand because I remember feeling the same way before I learned how to apply the law of attraction for relationships. The good news is that your complaint is exactly what you need to get started with using the law of attraction. Whatever tumbles out of your mouth when I ask about what you don’t like about your relationship (or lack thereof) is what you’ve been attracting and creating. So to get started, write down your biggest complaint: He never wants to spend time with you. He’s grumpy all the time. You never meet anyone you’re interested in.Whatever you’re having the most pain around— that’s where you want to start.