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all, Rob senses it and stops immediately. Anal is a lovely, very intimate way to have sex. I wish you much enjoyment if you decide to try this with your lover. Start with fingers and vibrators - Age 23, England Let's be honest, it's a bit naughty, anal sex. That's a turn on in itself. Men also appreciate that it's quite rare for a girl to like it, so they tend to get quite excited at the prospect (bless them). Don't let them rush in. Warm up properly and for God's sake, LUBE. I can't stress that enough. I lost my anal virginity to a bloke who was pretty selfish and probably not that experienced in the area (with hindsight). It hurt. Lots. Why? We had no lube and he didn't take his time. Consequently I wasn't relaxed and it almost put me off. Almost. Still with burning curiosity and the belief that it would be amazing with the right person, I tried it again. The second time was with a different bloke who knew what he was doing and it was an incredibly intense, full feeling that I enjoyed JOY FEELINGS