JOY FEELINGS MAGAZINE July issue | Page 42

Love is not weak…. it is PURE POWER. : Integrity Most women don’t understand why they feel so much insecurity and constant worry in life. A woman who has real values and sticks up for herself is like a beacon of light to a man. It’s because they never develop a sense of integrity and the feeling of self-respect and love that comes with it. Most women say one thing and do another. When you do this with a man, you will lose his trust and respect… two very critical ingredients to being irresistible to a man. Most men don’t value women who don’t value themselves. For instance many women will tell a friend they love them, and then talk negatively about them behind their back to gain approval from other friends. I have to sit down with them and get them thinking of what they stand for and believe in… and drop the addiction to external approval. Integrity creates sanity. It’s one of the few things you come into the world with, and its one of the easiest things to take for granted and sell to try to be accepted by others. It’s a delicate balance and you must understand how to balance it correctly. HOW TO BALANCE YOUR LOVE LIFE AND YOUR CAREER 1. Prioritize