JOY FEELINGS MAGAZINE July issue | Page 41

It’s easier than you might think to cultivate this way of being, you just have to know how. : Love Love… there is not a more significant word in the English language. What do I mean about “love” in the context of making men irresistibly attracted and in love with you? There are two types of people. One who lives life in fear, and the other who lives life in love. Most people tend to live in fear. i.e. fear of being left, not being loved, pain, being cheated on, being left, and the list goes on. Believe it or not, living in constant fear and worry can kill a man’s attraction for you and cause him to pull away. Men universally are drawn to women who live a life of love, positivity, joy, creativity and keeps worry and fear to a minimum. The fact is this type of woman is rare. Unfortunately most women live in constant fear, worry, self-judgment, guilt and anxiety. Further, when you base your actions with men off of fearbased emotions, you’re bound to act in a way that predisposes you to lose attraction and love from men. Living positively has to be learned… and it can be learned. I’m going to share with you a secret that has taken me years to understand. A woman filled with love in her heart, who sees dance, celebration and music everywhere she goes is the most desirable quality a woman can posses to a man.