JOY FEELINGS MAGAZINE July issue | Page 39

A woman who has the selfconfidence enough to want, to desire, and not be attached gets the love from any man she wants. Most women are in fact needy, and it’s not their fault (it has to do with many factors), but it is completely possible to learn to have confidence and security in yourself. If you deal with neediness on a day-to-day basis and want to learn how to become selfconfident and free of fear, anxiety, neediness, self-doubt or jealousy, then check out my emotional balancing tips. : Nurturance Most men enjoy independence in a woman, but men also secretly like to feel taken care of as well. To most women this comes naturally. The problem is when a man does something hurtful to a woman, she has a tendency to begin to withhold this quality out of either fear or anger. Osho, an enlightened Indian mystic, once said “a man’s life is a journey to find the happiness he once felt inside the womb of his mother.” Very deep stuff. Could you imagine the repercussions if you were able to make him feel this way? You wouldn’t be able to get rid of him! And there are ways to make him feel this way that I don’t have time to get into right now (that’s what my free email newsletter and programs are for). The great thing is nurturance is one of your most basic female instincts… Most guys do want that little tiny bit of mommy in a girlfriend.