Unfortunately, most men will
never know this kind of
women, so when she does
come, well let’s just say, have
you ever heard of those
stories of guys proposing in
the first 3 months?
There is a way to cultivate
this aspect of yourself, and I
believe you DO have this
inside you… you just have to
learn how to release it.
: Not “Needing” But
Wanting
Many, many women fall into
the trap of confusing liking,
caring for and loving
someone for being attached
and needing that someone.
Loving someone and
being attached to someone
are not the same thing.
Let me help you to
understand the difference.
Loving someone is when you
are thinking about the other
person’s needs and happiness
while when you become
attached to someone you
think about how YOUR
needs are not being fulfilled
by this person.
Love is fearless and feelings
joyous and attachment is
fearful and feels bad.
Most guys can sense
neediness, which usually
causes them to run the other
direction.
But they can also sense a girl
who WANTS rather than
needs.
What is the real difference
between want and need?
Need is obliging the other
person, that you can’t live
without him, while want is
being secure in yourself but
liking that he be an addition
to you, that you could live
without him if need be.
I only know this by talking to
thousands of guys about this.