JOY FEELINGS MAGAZINE July issue | Page 30

can seem hurtful, and you have every right to feel what you’re feeling. The problem is letting your emotions control your actions can negatively impact hisattraction for you. When a man does hurtful things like act unaffectionate, distant or not calk you back, most women tend to react by becoming worried, tense and lose that light-hearted spark they originally brought to the table, which drew him in in the first place. Most women either try to “convince” him to open up, try to change his behaviors or simply become upset, passive aggressive and “give him a taste of his own medicine”. The reason why these things never work is because most men don’t initially realize when they have hurt you, they don’t understand female emotions and pull away slowly after it happens a few times. Men absolutely crave a woman who stays lighthearted and relaxed ESPECIALLY when things get rough. Humor and light-heartdeness is like a BILLBOARD mounted to a woman’s forehead that says “I’m the one!” Men feel this on a subconscious gut level. If you’re becoming overlyserious, worried or upset over these things and you’re reacting emotionally because of it, unfortunately your man is very likely to lose attraction and pull away and become a relationship goddess you need to take action and learn how to reverse this before things gets worse. If you lead with a sense of humor when things are not going well, it’s amazing for