JOY FEELINGS MAGAZINE July issue | Page 29

Since the answer to the eternal puzzle of how to make a guy commit has been answered, what are you waiting for? Try our tips out on your date, your boyfriend or the eternal frat boy you just haven’t seemed to be able to convince to commit for a long time. Make sur ethat you are both on the same level and that you have not mistakenly misread any signs along the way. We’re almost sure he won’t resist your charm and he’ll be a changed man in no time. That works for us ladies, doesn’t it? WHAT MEN FIND  IRRESISTIBLE IN A  WOMAN  Avoid Over­Seriousness, Worrying & Reacting  Emotionally If He’s  Distant What I’ve found after coaching thousands of women over the last 10 years is that when men do stupid things in a relationship like act distant, unaffectionate or uninterested, most women tend to become overlyemotional, hurt, angry and worry if things are “okay”. Many women will then act aloof, tense or upset in reaction to this. But this will not make him more attracted to you or understand. Unfortunately It will actually make him less attracted. Now, men do sometimes really brainless things that