JOY FEELINGS MAGAZINE July issue | Page 21

into a more serious and committed relationship, she’s coming from a place of inviting the man to be with her, but at the same time being clear that her life is going to continue forward and be full and rich no matter what a man does. This “attitude” is a subtle shift, but the response that a man will have to it will make all the difference. When a man senses that the woman he’s with is also carefully deciding whether or not she should CHOOSE HIM or not, suddenly a man will jump into the “space” that brings a more committed relationship together. MAKING HIM THINK IT’S ALL HIS IDEA John legend is a great gentleman to his wife So aside from having the right “attitude”, how do you show a man that you’re selective and draw him closer to you? You can do it by saying something as simple as: “It’s completely your right to date more than one woman