JOY FEELINGS MAGAZINE July issue | Page 20

Amal’s George You never want to be in a situation where you are asking a man where you stand with him. Not only does this put you in a vulnerable position, but it assumes that he’s the one in control, and it will actually make him feel LESS attracted to you. Men are simply not attracted to women who try and convince them to be in a more serious relationship with them. Instead, men are deeply and naturally attracted to women who live their lives and have certain “standards” when it comes to interacting with men. And one of the unspoken standards that is most attractive to a man is a woman who is what I call “selective.” HOW BEING SELECTIVE MAKES HIM WANT ONLY YOU When a man has an easy time having a woman fall for him, or a man sees a woman acting in a way that says she will not be okay without his love and commitment, then a man is turned off. He senses that the reason she wants to move forward is more about satisfying unmet emotional needs than about true connection and appreciation. On the other hand, when a woman is selective about how and when she moves