Mix Pleasure with Pain
Lure them in with focused attention, then change
direction, appearing suddenly uninterested. Make them
feel guilty and insecure. Even instigate a breakup,
subjecting them to an emptiness and pain that will give
you room to maneuver
Your seduction should never follow a simple course
upward toward pleasure and harmony. The climax will
come too soon, and the pleasure will be weak. What
makes us intensely appreciate something is previous
suffering.
Without tension, without anxiety and suspense, there
can be no feeling of release, of true pleasure and joy. It is
your task to create that tension in the target, to stimulate
feelings of anxiety, to lead them to and fro, so that the
culmination of the seduction has real weight and
intensity. So rid yourself of your nasty habit of avoiding
conflict, which is in any case unnatural. You are most
often nice not out of your own inner goodness but out of
fear of displeasing, out of insecurity.
Phase 4: Move in for the kill
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