Joy feelings magazine JFMAGAUG-OCT | Page 74

Effect a Regression Stir Up the Transgressive and Taboo Making your targets feel that you are leading them past either kind of limit is immensely seductive. People yearn to explore their dark side. But we are strange animals: the moment any kind of limit is imposed, physically or psychologically, we are instantly curious. A part of us wants to go beyond that limit, to explore what is forbidden. The most blatant way to do this is to engage in behavior that gives you a dark and forbidden aura. Theoretically you are someone to avoid; in fact you are too seductive to resist. Use Spiritual Lures Everyone has doubts and insecurities —about their body, their self-worth, their sexuality. If your seduction appeals exclusively to the physical, you will stir up these doubts and make your targets self-conscious. Instead, lure them out of their insecurities by making them focus on something sublime and spiritual: a religious experience, a lofty work of art, the occult. 73 JF MAG 2019!