Joy feelings magazine January 2019 issue | Page 40

when it comes time to progressing in a relationship and talking marriage, it’s critical for communication to be on point. Marriage is the covenant meant to last a lifetime. So, what about you? How will you know when to commit? How will you know what it will mean to strike that accord in commitment between loving with all your heart and following through on that over and over again? I’ve identified five keys to commitment that I’ve learned through my experience, observing others and scientific studies. I hope you benefit. Please share your thoughts in the comments! Positive Experiences A great confidence and commitment builder in a relationship is a shared, positive experience with the person you love. Think of the identity of your relationship — how you and your partner perceive it to be. I bet that inside- joke you share with your partner came from that first date at the baseball game, or that awkward moment at the restaurant when your boyfriend forgot his wallet. Oops! Now, he’s eternally grilled for that mishap! But those are the things we remember! Take the