JOY FEELINGS MAGAZINE January 2016 issue | Page 66

Venting Frustration Will Only Make Your Anger Worse Nobody recommends bottling up your anger, but venting your frustrations may actually be much worse. Deal With Your Emotions First When it comes to anger management, everyone has their own way to chill out. If you find yourself on the verge of a fight with your loved one, take a moment to deal with your stress, and allow them to do the same. In most cases, it's probably best for you to do so alone (though in some sensitive situations, simply taking a moment to breathe where you are can help, too). Do whatever brings your energy down. Go for a walk. Listen to loud music. Write an angry note and then destroy it. Joy feelings mag Page 66