JOY FEELINGS MAGAZINE February Love issue 2017! | Page 67
attention back into the moment. If you sense him starting to go somewhere else mentally, take the lead and ask to get on top for a while. Keep in mind that certain positions are more conducive to intimacy than others. It’ s hard to feel very connected to your partner when you’ re bent over the bed in doggystyle! Try positions where your bodies are close and you’ re able to hold each other. Missionary is usually a good bet, or you can try climbing onto his lap and having both of you sit up.
7. Make eye contact
Eye contact is one of the fastest ways to feel intimate. Looking someone in the eye and having them return your gaze can be a deeply vulnerable and connecting experience. Try kissing each other while keeping your eyes open, or maintaining eye contact as you touch each other. You can also try to make eye contact( even if just for a second!) while you’ re orgasming.
8. Try something new together
When you experiment with something you’ ve never tried before, you’ re naturally prevented from going into autopilot. You have to pay attention to what you’ re doing, walk each other through it, and give feedback. You can try a new position or sex toy, incorporate some