JOY FEELINGS MAGAZINE February Love issue 2017! | Page 64

your partner’ s arm while watching television is enough to send those hormones into the love canal. We feel loved when we are touched. We feel wanted when we receive kind words of encouragement from a partner. Affection is a point of contact that enhances emotional, spiritual and physical relief.

How To Have Sex With More Intimacy And Less Boredom

1. Explain your desires in greater detail

It sounds like your boyfriend doesn’ t fully understand what you mean by intimacy, so try sharing more details about what you want. You might say something along the lines of,“ I want to feel like you’ re here with me when we’ re having sex. Sometimes it feels like you’ re off somewhere else mentally. I don’ t need you to be really slow or gentle, I just want to feel like it’ s you and me having sex together.” Try reading some of the suggestions from this article to him, and have him pick the two he’ s most interested in trying. Ask him what his experience is like when he’ s having sex; it would be interesting to see if he

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