Joy feelings magazine Feb 2020 | Page 66

practiced Power Body Language, and you’ve practiced meeting tons of people. You’re ready for the playoffs. Last Minute Pep-Talk: A few more things I want you to keep in mind before your big ask: Pick 3 of my 13 Great First Date Questions … to have awesome conversation once you are actually on the date. Rejection won’t kill you (even if it feels like it will) Perfectionism is ugly. It makes us think rejection is the ultimate failure. It makes us worry that we have to find our soulmate or else we’ll never be happy. People may turn us down for a lot of reasons, many of which aren’t personal. They’re in a relationship, they’re not dating right now, we’re the wrong gender for them, their dog died, they’re just not feeling it today, whatever. There are a million reasons someone may not bite. It’s not about your value as a person; dating is about finding the right fit.