easy for them, you’re not putting any pressure on them. This
gives you major brownie points in their eyes.
Once the other person confirms, give them two options to
choose from (i.e. Friday night or Saturday afternoon). This
shows respect for their time and gets them more engaged in
the conversation.
Finally, send them your phone number “just in case something
comes up” and ask for theirs as well. (Note: Obviously, only do
this if you feel comfortable.)
Step #5: Consider a Wing Team
Don’t feel like you have to go out for the first time alone–
especially if you are asking someone you don’t know very well.
Go on double or group dates. It’s less pressure for everyone
involved, and you won’t have to worry about awkward lulls in
conversation with other people around you.
Stumped for group date ideas? Here’s a few:
Go the beach. Barbecue, have a cookout and play sports.