about it?” This is a great way to determine if you share a
mutual interest.
Be playful. “I have an emergency. [Dramatic pause.] I can’t
decide whether to order the Caffè Americano or the Caffè
Latte. Which do you think I should get?” Bonus: If you’re both
at a coffee shop, it’s reasonable to assume the other person is a
coffee junkie too and is likely to discuss their favorite drinks
with you.
Be thoughtful. “If you could hop on a ship tomorrow and go
anywhere in the world, where would you go?” “If you were a
superhero, what would be your superpower?” Much more
interesting than asking what their major was in college!
Ask them for a favor. “Hey, can you hold my jacket for a sec
while I grab these drinks?”
Make a stand (but don’t overdo it). Warning: For advanced
students only. This isn’t about being a rude jerk. That said,
you’re attractive when you’re passionate about something and
have an opinion about it. Avoid religion and politics. Safe
topics include movies, music, food and anything else you’d feel
comfortable discussing with your grandma. “Texas BBQ is the
best and no one can convince me otherwise.” Say it with a
smile so people don’t take you too seriously.