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Does such a thing happen when a nonJew is on trial? We do not see such concern from non-Jews throughout the world when one of their own is on trial in another country, let alone one’s own country or even one’s own town – because non-Jews simply do not have this intrinsic sense of connection between them. The pain felt by one non-Jew does not elicit any sort of reaction from another non-Jew, even when they are from the same place and even when they share the same religion. Accordingly, Rabbi Shapiro explained, the Jewish people are correctly referred to by a singular name, ‘adam’, whereas non-Jews can only be referred to by the plural form of that same word, ‘Anashim’, men (or people). Thankfully, the jury eventually acquitted Beilis – and seemingly, the entire Jewish people and our Torah along with him. This unique quality of Jewish unity – what makes us laugh and rejoice together at each other’s smachot (as we sing, “Siman tov u’mazel tov yehe lanu u’lechol Yisrael – may there be a good sign and a good fortune for us and for all Israel”) and cry and mourn at each other’s losses – is actually something we see in the mitzvos that Hashem commanded us, such as lo titor5 (don’t bear a grudge) and lo titom6 (don’t take revenge), as well as v’ahavta lere’acha kamocha7 (love your fellow as you love yourself), all of which, we should note, were commanded in the very same passage in the Torah. Rashi, our great teacher, explains8 what is meant by revenge: A person says to someone: “Lend me your sickle,” IF WE DO NOT EXPERIENCE JOY AT THE SMACHOT OF OTHER JEWS, OR THE OPPOSITE, PAIN WHEN SOMETHING UNPLEASANT BEFALLS THEM, THEN WE MUST CONCLUDE THAT WE HAVE BECOME SPIRITUALLY ‘PARALYSED’. and the other person responds: “No.” The next day, the person who turned down the previous day’s request approaches the person who had asked him and says: “Lend me your axe,” and the other person responds: “No, I will not lend (my axe) to you, just as you would not lend (your sickle) to me” – this is taking revenge. What is bearing a grudge? If instead, the person was to answer: “Here is (my axe), I am not like you who did not lend (your sickle) to me” – this is bearing a grudge, for he bears hatred for the other person in his heart, even though he does not take revenge on him (by refusing to loan him the axe). But, how can a person really be expected to rise to such an occasion and behave in such a manner, giving the item wholeheartedly without any trace of ill feeling in his heart towards someone who refused to do the very same thing for him only the day before? The Talmud Yerushalmi9 offers an analogy to help us better understand this seemingly impossible obligation of not taking revenge. Suppose a person was cutting meat and the knife slipped while he was doing so and he cut his other hand in the process. Would one think that the hand that was cut should now take revenge on the hand that had been doing the cutting and strike that hand in return? Of course not! The Jewish people are one people – difficult as it may be in practice, we are meant to see each and every other Jew as merely an extension of our own selves. Moreover, this also explains why we are meant to share reciprocal feelings for what transpires in each other’s lives. On the other hand, suppose a person was to injure his arm – to bruise it or cut it or damage it in some way – but not take any notice of the injury? What would we say in such a case? Surely, we would have to conclude that the injured arm had somehow been paralysed, that some sort of nerve damage had taken place that prevented the message of the injury from being transmitted to the rest of the body via the brain. Similarly, if we do not experience joy at the smachot of other Jews or, the opposite, pain when something unpleasant befalls them, then we must conclude that we have become spiritually ‘paralysed’, insensitive to the feelings of our brethren, and we must, accordingly, do everything we can to urgently find a remedy for such a situation, seeking whatever intervention is available – just as we would if it was a physical part of our body experiencing this paralysis. The Jewish people exist intrinsically as a singularity – as a unity – comprised of many different, but essential, parts. Only by embracing this unity via the natural connections that exist and allowing such connections to grow and flourish, will we find our true place in the world and achieve our true potential. JL 1 Menachem Mendel Beilis arrest http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Menahem_ Mendel_Beilis 2 Yevamos 61a 3 Founder and Rosh Yeshiva of Yeshivas Chachmei Lublin 4 Shevuos 39a 5 Vay