Jewish Life Digital Edition April 2014 | Page 43

pect is meeting different Jews from around the world, and learning their cultures for all the chaggim. The beauty of Israel is that no matter where you came from or when you came, everyone is your brother, sister, son, or daughter. This is one huge family that comes to- gether in times of need. We have adjusted brilliantly. We have learned that certain things in life are not important, for example, with a decent transport system, you don’t need to have a car. I firmly believe if you throw yourself into the system as soon as possible, you be- The Romain family HEIDI AND MARC ROMAIN AND FAMILY Twice, I have sat in an empty apartment eating pizza. The first time, my husband and I were newlyweds, starting our careers, and the world was filled with possibility. The second time, we had just made aliyah, we had two daughters aged four and two, we were restarting our lives and the world was again filled with possibility. We chose to make aliyah because, as a family, we wanted to play our role in building the Jewish state. We wanted to raise our children in a country where being Jewish is not only an expression of one’s religion, but an integral part of the society’s culture. We made aliyah on 20 December 2010 and settled in Jerusalem. My husband was offered a post at Hadassah Ein Karem Hospital, as a doctor in the Intensive Care Unit. I was five months pregnant with my son, and since we were still consid- come a member of society and fit in much quicker. It is also important to keep an open mind; things are done differently here and if you are accepting and willing to learn the ways and teach some of your own, you will get along brilliantly. ered “olim chadashim” four months later, he was born an “oleh chadash”. Although my children are now fully fluent in English and Hebrew and well integrated into Israeli culture, I recall those first few months being very difficult. The language barrier provided many challenges. My four-year-old daughter didn’t understand the other kids or their games. It took at least three months for her to settle. My two-year-old had a slightly easier time, as her language was still developing so she started speaking both simultaneously. Sometimes as I sit doing homework with my daughter, who is now in grade one, I begin to cry. I listen to her read in Hebrew so effortlessly an