Stories/Experiences from Parents
Leslie, 29 - 1st time Mom
What was going through your mind?
Well, when my water first broke, I was so excited. My heart just raced thinking the baby would be born soon. I was completely ready to have him. I never once remember being scared.
Did you know what to expect or were you totally surprised?
I knew everything to expect, and even though labor was painful, I was amazed at the whole process (and still am).
Did anything funny or unusual happen on your delivery day?
Does telling my parents to "LEAVE NOW" count?
How did you get through it?
My husband was very supportive. Trying to relax also helped, but I would say the epidural saved the day! I think staying focused on the process helps if you have a normal labor time, but that's hard to do when you're in labor as long as I was (longer than 12 hours).
Was labor difficult? How long did it last?
Initially labor wasn't bad (when the water broke), and it wasn't too bad up until I was dilated 6-8 cm. After that, the pain is absolutely indescribable. It hurt to the core of my bones. My body was shaking with every contraction. I wasn't going to use an epidural, but after 4-5 agonizing hours I finally begged for it. From the time my water broke to actual delivery was 22 hours and 15 minutes.
What was it like giving birth to a baby?
Giving birth with an epidural wasn't that bad. I guess the only thing is that I couldn't seem to push as hard as I needed to because of the epidural. The baby had a hard time coming out, so they had to use the vacuum. Once he started coming out, it was like he just slipped out.
What advice would you give to an expecting mom about her delivery day?
Don't try to be a martyr for the natural childbirth cause. Try to relax, stay focused, and BREATHE (it really does work!)!!!