Island Life Magazine Ltd December 2011/January 2012 | Page 44

INTERVIEW Inside of the workshop after Stephanie was released by Sams Celia filming in India with DameThe Judiworkshop Dench where Stephanie was held and (inset) her kidnapper Michael Sams instead of being given urgent medical treatment and counselling, she was ordered by a doctor to take two sedatives, and then she and her parents were thrust in front of more than 200 journalists and photographers from all over the world. She still has a video of the conference, where she is seen to utter ‘I can’t believe it’. “I was expecting maybe a local reporter, but was not prepared for what happened. And the previous night when I got home, a police officer would not even let me hug my parents because I was a ‘crime scene’,” she recalls. Following a tip-off, police began searching for a red Metro car, spotted on the night Sams returned her. Stephanie alleged: “The police parked a similar car outside the house where I was abducted and informed me that they wanted to blindfold me, lie me down in the car and drive me away from the house in order to re-enact the kidnap. “They would drive me the route they thought I would have been taken by the kidnapper and wanted me to confirm this by any changes I may have noticed in any road surfaces. In short, they were taking me through the whole kidnap once again. I had no choice but to do it, but I refused to be blindfolded.” Those were among the reasons Stephanie agreed to give motivational talks to police about how victims of crime should be treated. She said: “I was determined this should never happen to anyone again so I started giving talks around the country to different police forces. Most police officers were shocked by the way I had I thought of the Island I thought of safety, comfort and happiness. I couldn’t get that out of my head, and I felt I needed to move. So I just made the decision, and a close friend agreed to come with me. “When I moved I only wanted to live in Ventnor so I couldn’t see the mainland. Whenever I looked over at the mainland I hated it. Everything bad was there, and being in Ventnor there was nothing there to remind me. “We lived in a flat for a couple of years, but by then I was getting better so we moved to a house in Ryde knowing I could look over at Portsmouth and it didn’t bother me. I did a lot of healing on the Island, but it wasn’t easy. There were times when I drove my car up to Culver and just sat there thinking ‘who would miss me?’ I have never revealed that before. “I went through terrible depression, and after moving here I spent about six years as a recluse. It wasn’t until after my mum died suddenly, and the police got in touch with me to do talks that I began to come out of my shell a bit more. Sams took eight days of my life and I’ll be damned that he was having any more. I do like going out socialising, having a few dates; meals with friends, and I cannot be that ‘The previous night when I got home, a police officer would not even let me hug my parents because I was a crime scene.’ 44 www.visitislandlife.com been treated. They said there was no way this could happen now.” She continued: “I tried to put the pieces back together, and even went back to work for two days, but I realised the pieces were not there anymore. I needed to go somewhere to start fresh, because everywhere I looked there were reminders of what happened. “The only place I loved, and had visited regularly from a baby to my teenage years was the Isle of Wight. I had fond memories, and every time