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relationship or attitude represents a way you want to be or whether it
contributes to a sense of dissatisfaction or dis-ease.
Also, remember that there is no need for judging, criticizing or being
upset with what we see when we look at our relationship to the
present moment, even if what we see is unfortunate or difficult.
Similarly, there is no need to praise or get involved with fortunate or
preferred attitudes. In either case, the practice is to be mindful of the
relationship or attitude without being for it or against it. This practice
then allows the relationship or attitude to settle or relax.
2. Periodically notice the general state of your mind. Does it feel tired
or alert, contracted or expanded, calm or agitated, fuzzy or clear,
resistant or eager, pushing forward or pulling back? Putting aside
whatever commentary or judgments you might have about the state
of your mind, use your mindfulness to become more aware of the
state. What emotions come with it? What is its felt sense? What
relationship is there between your mind state and how your body
feels? What does it feel like to step back and observe the state of
mind rather than be in it? What happens to your state of mind as you
are mindful of it?
Mindfulness exercises for the fifth week
1. Choose an activity you do on a daily basis. This can be driving to
work, preparing breakfast, reading email, etc. For one week each time
you do this chosen activity become aware of your state of mind. How
does your state of mind influence how you relate to the activity?
Keep a log of your changing states over the week and compare the
role your mind state has on how you do the activity.
2. Consider what ordinary activity you do that helps you have a good
state of mind. During this week, do this activity more often and
become more mindful of what this state of mind is like physically,
emotionally and cognitively. Explore how you might realistically
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