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participant’s expressed experience, but instead to cultivate an attitude
of friendly interest to it.
- Patience – the teaching process simply works with experience as it is
right now and allows an understanding that things can only emerge in
their own time.
- Beginner’s mind – the teacher communicates a willingness to
‘suspend’ judgement and approaches experience with a fresh interest
and curiosity. So that rather than seeing things through a fog of
preconceptions there is the possibility of bringing clarity and vitality
to experience. The teacher supports participants to develop a
perspective on our experience that is not based on our history.
- Trust – conveying ‘in the moment’ (rather than focused on
outcome) trust and confidence in the process of bringing mindful
attention to experience. The teacher communicates a faith in the
validity
of
thoughts,
emotions,
sensations
and
the
perceptions/intuitions arising out of connection with these. The
teacher conveys a sense of trust in the participants’ expertise in
relation to their own experience. The practice followed by inquiry
offers a structure and a process for enabling us to witness personal
experience and an encouragement to rely on the validity of this
evidence.
- Non-striving – the teacher embodies an attitude of willingness to
allow the present to be the way it is and for each participant to be the
way they are. The process is explicitly not trying to fix problems or
attain any goal, but rather is intending to uncover an awareness of the
actuality of experience, and a willingness to let it be the way it is. The
process of mindfulness offers us all the opportunity to step aside
from our usual process of endeavouring to ‘improve ourselves’ and
‘trying’ to reach a new place. The paradox of the learning process is
that although there are clear reasons for us all being engaged in an
exploration of how we deal with the pain of our lives, there is nothing
to be achieved here that is not already present in this moment. This is
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