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Formal mindfulness practices offer the opportunity to develop a finely tuned ability to ‘read the internal weather’ of one’s being, which can then be brought to the experience of being in relation with another. For the teacher, incorporating mindful awareness of their process while teaching offers a way to bring a present moment awareness of all of themselves (thoughts, emotions, sensations and actions) so that they become an embodied example of what is being taught. In particular this allows the possibility of attending closely to the ever shifting ‘feeling tone’ within the body and of using this invaluable source of information as a barometer to check in with and inform responses to participants. The teacher’s present moment focus is grounded through their connection with this personal direct experience. Their responses to individuals, to the group and to the teaching process are informed and supported by this sense of connectedness to personal direct experience – allowing for truly authentic responsiveness. In practice this process is evidenced by a relaxed calmness, together with alertness, aliveness and vitality shown though language, bodily expression and behaviour. The teacher’s sensitivity to personal direct experience influences their choices within the group – e.g. through attuning to an individual during mindful dialogue; through the use of breathing spaces to open participants to difficulty arising within the group; through appropriate sharing of ‘in the moment’ personal direct experience. The teacher embodies a sense of ‘surrender’ to the moment and to what is needed now. Through this ‘way of being’ there is a clear demonstration to the group of ‘mindfulness in action’ – a lived example of the essence of mindfulness practice and principles. The teacher operates predominantly in ‘being’ rather than ‘doing’ mode. The teacher is immersed in the process. 139