insideKENT Magazine Issue 83 - February 2019 | Page 45

B e a r L o d g e a t P o r t L y m p n e R e s e r ve (www.aspinallfoundation.org/port-lympne /weddings/) which of fers an outdoor cer emony space and priv ate dining f or 70 guests and tents for evening reception revellers to stay over. The Look For brides, 2019 sees a return to classic shapes, clean lines and dem ure necklines (thank y ou Meghan). The dress will be all about r omance, softness and simplicity; pared back lace , delicate sleeves, less structured ball gowns, classic halter necks and even modest two pieces. More adventurous brides should seek out pastel shades suc h as so-light-it’s-nearly- white pale blue or brighter-than-white-but-not-as- adventurous-as-colour showstopper metallic gowns in either silver or rose gold. Hair, in keeping with the elegant trend, will see the return of the classic smooth chignon, delicate loose tendrils to relax more formal styles or more relaxed half-up-half-down dos with soft waves, or a relaxed lob (long bob). Makeup is all about the bar ely there natural look, nude colours, soft pink lips offset with billowing extra long veils, gentle capes and statement headpieces in pastel or bright florals or bold metallic which complete this years must-have accessories. For grooms this year, it’s all about the tailored sharp and smart fitted thr ee-piece allo wing f or post ceremony, jackets off, sleeves rolled back, party time relaxed informality without compromising the sleek, elegant, wedding look. The Flowers This year is all about going back to na ture and bringing the outdoors inside in a move away from flower walls, large-scale table decor and unif orm bouquets. Utilise trees, foliage, grasses, reeds and dried flowers to create natural hanging displays and subtle backdrops. British-grown flowers will be a t the forefront of rustic r omantic, with hand-tied bouquets that feature garden roses and other soft blooms suc h as peonies in soft pastel and n ude colours. Reception décor will see the rise in low-level table decorations, abandoning foam and large-scale vases in favour of wooden troughs, baskets and jars to cr eate delica te displa ys tha t encourage conversation. The Cake So long naked, plain and simple and hello opulent, details and more is more. 2019 is all about the wow factor sta tement cake , or indeed cakes! T hink precision piping work, intricate sugar craft, and so- good-they-look-real sugar flowers and adornments, plus per sonalisation thr ough painted cakes and monograms, colours that range fr om whites and pastels through to metallics and gemstones and wow factor cake centrepieces and banquets. arrangements to bring people together. Instead of sit down meals or buffets, go for sharing platters, or grazing tables. Make things mor e fun with f ood stations or interactive immersive experiences such as signature cocktail bartenders or BBQ bars, or pick dozens of mini desserts or a dessert tab le or serve cake instead. Whilst on the subject, w hy have one cake when you can have a cake banquet of different flavours, individual cakes and cake pops – all perfect solutions for group dining and mingling. Keep your guests entertained by seeking alternative entertainers; opt for subtle close up magic, tarot card readers, character cloakroom or bar staff or artists who’ll produce unique keepsake pictures for your guests. Gone are the days of the traditional band- then-DJ set up; think instead of a festival style line up of soloists, instrumentalists, bands, DJs, karaoke and even silent discos across a host of spaces, and feel brave enough to pick music that you enjoy – not just what you think your guests will. And there we have it for 2019; be brave, be bold, be elegant, be romantic, be green, but most importantly, be true to y ourselves and do ‘I Do’ y our way – congratulations and good luck! The Reception 2019 is all about making couples and their guests feel relaxed, and the reception is the ideal place for joining in, feeling in volved and bringing people together. Food will be about quality, not quantity, with the revival of interesting canapés, miniature desserts and quality ingredients. In terms of seating, do away with traditional round tables and opt for long banquet tables, with inclusive informal table plans aided by those low-level flower 45