Ingomar Spirit Newsletter April-May 2014 | Page 16

Non-Profit Organization U.S. Postage PAID Pittsburgh, PA Permit No. 2512 Making Life Better. Ingomar United Methodist Church 1501 W. Ingomar Road Pittsburgh, PA 15237-1644 An Attitude of Gratitude A friend gave me “The Happiness Advantage” by Shawn Anchor, a book about positive psychology that I found fascinating. The author offers a very simple exercise that can help us change our perspective on life: begin each day by identifying three things for which you are grateful. Since I began reading the book I’ve tried to do this every day. I’ve asked the staff to do it as well. It’s an interesting exercise. At first, we mention the big stuff for which we are grateful: things like God, Jesus, our spouse, our families, our grandchildren, our church. Those were items that appeared on my list right away. But an essential aspect of this discipline is to resist mentioning the same things over and over again. My list has included my bed, a hot shower, clean water, medical care, peanut butter, coffee, the people with whom I work, the opportunity to be a pastor, sunshine, central heating, warm clothing, fish sandwiches and Nathan’s dog Baxter. Some of those items may seem silly but my life is better because of them. Thinking of three new things each day expands our understanding of how blessed we are. It forces us into a more positive, more thankful mindset. It makes us look around to identify things in life that we take for granted. If you drive to work on icy, snowy roads you are probably thankful for salt trucks. And isn’t it nice that grocery stores are so close and have such a large supply of food? Letter from the Pastor (continued on page 15)