Industry Magazine Commercial Kitchen Spring 2016 | Page 19

“EVERY INDIVIDUAL HAS A PLACE TO FILL IN THE WORLD AND IS IMPORTANT IN SOME RESPECT.” - Nathaniel Hawthorne accompanied by important strengths. When asked if his dyslexia has hindered his business success, Richard Branson said “strangely, I think my dyslexia has helped.” Experts suggest that people with dyslexia are often better than most at being “creative and looking at the bigger picture” and this can make them better strategic thinkers. Daniel Pink, author of A Whole New Mind, believes that some of these advantages might result from a greater ability to use the right side of the brain. They don’t focus on their disability. Instead, they focus on their unique abilities. 4. ALIGNMENT - Don’t force yourself to fit in. Find the right fit. Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer was different. He had a major and obvious flaw. This flaw made him unpopular and led to rejection and isolation. It looked like Rudolph was destined for a life of pain and misery, but then the situation changed. Rudolph discovers that his nose isn’t really a weakness. In the right situation, a “foggy Christmas Eve,” Rudolph’s nose is an irreplaceable advantage. When the situation changed, the value of his unique characteristic changed as well. He didn’t succeed in spite of his weakness; he succeeded because of his weakness. Rudolph’s success was a result of a perfect fit between his unique qualities and the situation. Do you want to succeed? Find your foggy Christmas Eve. Find the right situation, the one that offers the perfect fit between who you are and what is required. Unlike Rudolph, we don’t have to just wait for the right situation to come along, we can seek it out or even create it. If you want greater happiness, success and fulfillment, follow these four steps. Become aware of your unique characteristics. Accept your weaknesses, instead of trying to fix them. Appreciate the strengths that correspond with each of your weaknesses. Create alignment between who you are and what you do. SPRING 2016 ABOUT THE AUTHOR David Rendall has spoken to audiences on every inhabited continent. His clients include the US Air Force, the Australian Government, AT&T, State Farm Insurance, Ralph Lauren, and BASF. Prior to becoming a professional speaker, he was a management professor, stand-up comedian and endurance athlete. He earned a doctor of management degree in organizational leadership, as well as a graduate degree in psychology, and is the author of three books: • The Four Factors of Effective Leadership • The Freak Factor • The Freak Factor for Kids 19